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This memorial website was created in the memory of our loved one, Walter justin Wiley who was born in Illinois on June 20, 1979 and was promoted to heaven to be with our lord Jesus on February 16, 2005 at the age of 25. We will remember him forever.
To The Best Son
No one knew that fateful day
What lie just ahead.
I kissed your face the night before
The next evening you were dead.
I remember how I screamed,
"Tell me it isn't true!"
As my husband held me close
There was nothing they could do.
My pain I felt was too great
I felt it wasn't fair.
My mind seemed to be in shock
It seemed death loomed everywhere.
I tried to bargain with God,
"If you'll just give him back to me
I'll give my life in his place
I'll take his place gladly."
But I knew what was done, was done.
You had fulfilled your purpose on earth.
I knew God said, "He is mine again."
He was on borrowed time from birth.
Justin, you never got to age alot
you had only a short lived life,
you never got the chances some get,
you never got children or a wife.
But in heaven it seems I see
your so happy to be at your eternal home.
I know God has reassured me, when you left
you did not have to go alone.
For our Jesus took you in his arms
way before that awful crash
and you flew right up to heaven with him
never wanting to look back.
I'll always miss you! I'll always love you son!
You were the best son!
Love,
Mom
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THINKING OF YOU AND YOUR FAMILY, MY HUGS TO YOU ALL / Dianna Jacobs (Mother's friends )
Carol and family, you have now gone through the 2nd year
with out your precious Justin, does it get any less painful,
somedays "yes" and somedays "no." I am now almost into
the 3rd year, can't believe I h...
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I never met Walter, but... / Justin Wiley (none)
Hi,
I never met Walter Wiley, I did a search for Justin Wiley in Google, my own name, and came across the website.
Despite that, this site makes me feel like I did know him a little. I know it might not make much di...
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2nd Anniversary / Patsy Laycoax (aunt)
Today makes it two years since Justin went to be with God, our loving heavenly Father. I know he is far happier than we are. I remember Justin playing with a little Buddy doll when he was little. He wanted a brother so much. They made those just...
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It Was You / Carol Perry (mother)
I briefly caught a shadow
From the corner of my eye.
And I knew in an instant
It was your spirit lingering nearby.
I felt the cool breeze
Across My face it blew
It really seemed t envelop me
And I knew it was you!
You never s...
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Already a year... / Nikki (Sister)
Gosh, it doesn't seem possible that its almost been a year since you've been gone, but then again, it still doesn't seem possible that you are gone. I miss hearing that mellow voice say "hey sis" everytime i call and then give me a hard time everytim...
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God said / Natasha Miller (Sister) Read >> |
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all the holidays / Carol Perry (mom) Read >> |
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Year of Firsts ....... / Natasha Miller (Sister) Read >> |
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Thinking of You / Lori Jourdan (Friend and co-worker ) Read >> |
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good times / John Anspach (best friend ) Read >> |
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Our Big Brother... / Nikki Totsch (Sister) Read >> |
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when i awoke / Carol Perry (mom) Read >> |
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Part of the Gang... / Lisa Brubaker (Friend) Read >> |
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your birthday / Carol Perry (mom) Read >> |
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Missed and loved by so many / Lori Jourdan (friend from work and bowling ) Read >> |
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| His legacy |
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In Justin's own words:
The four things your friends say about you: ?
Easy-Going
Sweet
Intelligent
Good listener
What are you most passionate about?
Friends and family......I mean 90 % of anything I do is with them. I mean whether its going bowling on leagues or just staying home and playing card games around the dining room table. They don't mean the world to me they are the world to me.
What is the most important quality that you are looking for in another person?
The same love and passion towards family and friends. I hope they have a close relationship with their family and friends.
What are three of your BEST life-skills?
Communicating my innermost thoughts and feelings
Managing my finances
Using humor to make friends laugh
Other than your parents, who has been the most influential person in your life and why?
I would say there are two people. Both are my sisters. I am the oldest of us three, but growing up I wasn't the typical big brother. We have been there for each other through thick and thin. They are both honest with me, and I definitely wouldn't be the same without them both in my life. I love them.
What are the THREE things for which you are MOST thankful?
My life, it could be better. But it could be alot worse. Sometimes you gotta think about how bad things could be, to see how good you got it.
My mom, I mean shes my mom and friend. Even if shes down to her last dime, she will still give her two cents. I love her though.
My job, it doesn't pay great and its not glamorous. But I have one, which is a step above what others are going through.
Other than your appearance, what is the first thing that people notice about you?
My gentle character, I guess, I have been told that I couldn't hurt a fly.
What is the ONE thing that people DON'T notice about you right away that you WISH they WOULD?
My past, so they can understand how I became the person I am, as people we judge people too soon before we know anything about them.
How do you typically spend your leisure time?
Watching tv with my niece or bowling with my friends. Or just trying to meet people, hopefully that someone special.
Describe the last book that you read and enjoyed. What was it about? What did you like most about it?
The phone book? Everyone I know is in it......it tells me exactly what i wanted to know.
What are five things that you "can't live without?"
Family
Friends
Bowling
Air
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my own paradise
this was found in one of justin's files:
there is a place in my mind that i go
here i spend most of my time.
with the sunshine and beautiful scenery
its the perfect paradise!
Everyone i know is there
they are there representing their roles in my life
some people are the blades of grass
some the most amazing flowers!
in this midst of this paradise stands two trees
their branches reaching out
like two lovers holding hands. |
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| Walter's Photo Album |
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